a girl is not a medicine

more misogynist realism, and "my life got better when I started working on my capacity to tolerate the discomfort of other people being unhappy with me."

I made a post on instagram that said My life got better when I started working on my capacity to tolerate the discomfort of other people being unhappy with me. Some of my followers asked me how I did this, and I promised I’d reply in a longer article.

Let’s start by establishing the fact that not wanting other people to be mad at you is basically normal.…